Basketball should be as much about having fun as competing – let your love for it, not your “war face,” be your legacy.
Recently, Draymond Green raised some eyebrows with his comments about the Oklahoma City Thunder on his podcast, questioning if the team’s friendly demeanor – what he called “all the bromance” – could instill fear in opponents. When I first heard his remarks, I was taken aback, struggling to understand why anyone would find fault in a team of young athletes who love the game, play for each other, and enjoy every moment on the court.
Of course, Draymond is known for his intensity and physicality – his checkered history of fouls and confrontations is no secret. But here, it feels like his interpretation is misplaced. His comments brought me back to my childhood in Chicago in the ‘80s and ‘90s, hearing the older kids on the courts warn, “Don’t be out here laughing and smiling; you need to keep your war face on.” Back then, I tried so hard to mimic that tough look, sometimes focusing more on appearing intimidating than improving my jump shot.
Now, in my 40s and looking back, I realize what I missed: the pure joy of the game. Basketball, like any sport, is meant to be loved and enjoyed, not just “warred” over. I wish I’d spent more time soaking in those moments rather than worrying about looking tough. Draymond’s critique reminds me of the value of having fun, appreciating what you do, and not letting the notion of intimidation overshadow the joy of the game.
Intimidation isn’t the only way to win, and it’s certainly not a prerequisite to respect. Players like the Thunder can let their skill and teamwork speak for them, and there’s strength in that. I hope younger players scrolling through TikTok and seeing Green’s comments take them with a grain of salt. Don’t be afraid to enjoy the game and let your passion shine.
Basketball should be as much about having fun as competing – let your love for it, not your “war face,” be your legacy.
